{"id":4953,"date":"2016-11-08T22:11:26","date_gmt":"2016-11-08T21:11:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sct-nl.nl\/copy\/?p=4953"},"modified":"2017-01-15T20:09:09","modified_gmt":"2017-01-15T19:09:09","slug":"grote-ondersteuning-huwelijk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sct-nl.nl\/en\/grote-ondersteuning-huwelijk\/","title":{"rendered":"A great support for my marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"margin: 0in; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 13.0pt; color: #18376a;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sct-nl.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/olaf-300x300.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sct-nl.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/olaf-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"olaf-300x300\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-4954\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sct-nl.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/olaf-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.sct-nl.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/olaf-300x300-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><span style=\"font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\">I have now done the Ongoing Group for 4 years and attended some workshops with Peter Bernhardt. What can I say about what it has done to me and what it is doing to me? First of all, I see it as a great support for my marriage. When we get into an argument we turn to subgroups. At first everything in me says I don't want that, but I force myself to go against that reluctance. The result is: within 15 minutes, the argument has completely evaporated and love flows again between us without any of us feeling like we have lost out. In addition, I now see my children very regularly and the meeting is open and free. After the death of their mother, there was a very difficult period in which they did not want to see me at one point. I am convinced that by practicing SCT I have changed so much that they now enjoy interacting with me. They confirm that themselves now. In short SCT has given me a lot, which is why I continue it, because I am curious to see what else it can bring.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0in; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 13.0pt; color: #18376a;\"><span style=\"font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;\"><br \/>\nOlaf van Kooten<br \/>\nWageningen University &amp; Research professor<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ik heb nu 4 jaar de Ongoing Group gedaan en enkele workshops met Peter Bernhardt gevolgd. Wat kan ik zeggen over wat het met me gedaan heeft en wat het [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"inline_featured_image":false,"_EventAllDay":false,"_EventTimezone":"","_EventStartDate":"","_EventEndDate":"","_EventStartDateUTC":"","_EventEndDateUTC":"","_EventShowMap":false,"_EventShowMapLink":false,"_EventURL":"","_EventCost":"","_EventCostDescription":"","_EventCurrencySymbol":"","_EventCurrencyCode":"","_EventCurrencyPosition":"","_EventDateTimeSeparator":"","_EventTimeRangeSeparator":"","_EventOrganizerID":[],"_EventVenueID":[],"_OrganizerEmail":"","_OrganizerPhone":"","_OrganizerWebsite":"","_VenueAddress":"","_VenueCity":"","_VenueCountry":"","_VenueProvince":"","_VenueState":"","_VenueZip":"","_VenuePhone":"","_VenueURL":"","_VenueStateProvince":"","_VenueLat":"","_VenueLng":"","_VenueShowMap":false,"_VenueShowMapLink":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[15],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4953","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dg-leden-aan-het-woord"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sct-nl.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4953","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sct-nl.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sct-nl.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sct-nl.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sct-nl.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4953"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.sct-nl.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4953\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5331,"href":"https:\/\/www.sct-nl.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4953\/revisions\/5331"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sct-nl.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4953"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sct-nl.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4953"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sct-nl.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4953"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}